I was talking with a friend the other day about smoking and how disgusting it is. There was this nice looking guy that she thought was nice but then he lit up a cigarette and suddenly he wasn't so attractive any more. What is it about that? I know that I simply hate the smell of cigarette smoke and therefore don't want to spend too much time in the company of smokers. But then there are other issues such as pheremones and also health. There are so many different things that makes us attacted to someone. There's looks, humor, intelligence and then there's that other something you can't put your finger on. That's probably pheromones, I think it is any way.
Then there's the issue of health. It's horrible to think of the death that is caused via smoking. When us girls are looking for a many to marry, we want someone who will be arround to protect and provide for us. It's not going to be easy for a man to do that if his lungs are full of smoke. It's not just old people that fall victim to cancer, young people can get it too so we have to take that into consideration. I can't stand to see men (or anyone else for that matter) wheezing because of smoking. They can barely talk if they just run a few steps. I want a man to be fit and healthy so that he can pass on good genes as well. Apparently whatever nasty things that are in cigarettes can do damage to DNA which can make men infertile. Who in their right minds wants to have that happen. Even men who have no intention of marrying like the idea that they have a strong virility.
Well, everything went well with our wedding. We had it in my friend's garden. It was a beautiful sunny day and there were loads of birds churping and butterflies fluttering about. We had to keep things simple for cost reasons but I couldn't have wished for a more momorable day. We had everyone around us and there were a few tears shed. My cousin Annie caught the bouqet so she was very excited. After much fun and dance we went off to our honeymoon to Italy where we travelled about and visited the lakes in the north, Venice, Pisa and Rome. There were of course some language problems but in the major tourist areas the spoke English so it wasnt' a problem. Well, three months on and we are still truly in love and I'm hoping to get pregnant soon. Luckily we live in a society where people get married for love and not because our families demand. I was just reading an article about how a guy sliced off his penis as a protest because he wasn't allowed to marry his true love.
I have no idea where to go for a honeymoon. Was thinking of Puerto Rico but then I keep hearing about gun crime. Perhaps Mexico but really I like the idea of a an island. But Mexico sounds great from the perspective of history. Of course, Europe sounds wonderful and there is so much history. Venice with it's canals, Scotland with it's mountains. Then there is France with the war graves. I don't know. I keep asking people but I get no further forward. I'm liking the idea of a beach honeymoon but also like the idea of some history. So either we need to go somewhere that has both or else we could spend one week in a city and then one week at the beach. Now just need to spend more time thinking.
These days it seems that everyone want to be different. It's not good eough just to get married in a Church in front of family and friends who love you. There are people who are getting married whilst scuba diving or bungee jumping. I don't like this at all because getting married is about God. I know that God is everywhere but I would prefer to be in a Church. If you are getting married under the sea are you really taking God into your heart? I am also worried about the way that people are moving away from God by not even getting married at all. I don't know what's worse, getting married whilst bungee jumping or living in sin. I just want to be a good person and make sure that I please the Lord. I need Him to look after me, my husband-to-be any any kids we have. I am from very religious background and some non-beleivers say that if God is so wonderful then why did my parents die. Well, this is for God to decide. He must have had a need for them to be up in Heaven with Him.